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Quick breakdown of events for the Nov 4 & 5th

Location: Auburn NY

(Times and events are subject to change. Updates will be made as more information becomes available)

Weekend itinerary

Friday 11/4/22

3pm                                Check-in

5pm                                 Vending opens

6pm – 7pm                     Happy hour in Bar

  • Graffiti Ice breaker – Get to know other guests. Wear white tee-shirt, guests will introduce themselves and write name, phrases and or room number on your shirt

7pm-9pm                        Games & Seminars offered

Burlesque Show by Pretty Kitties

Pretty Kitties Burlesque Company is based out of Rochester NY, founded by Madame Mischief, Bethany Swank. They’re now under the direction of founding member and main choreographer, Leah, and have been entertaining audiences since 2008.

Whether with showstopping group routines or sexy solo acts, the Pretty Kitties set out to promote the love of every BODY and bare it all! From flirty classical burlesque to cabaret with a modern twist, it’s bound to be a nonstop titillating show with the Pretty Kitties! The group is composed of a variety of trained and talented performers, such as burlesque and belly dancers as well as singers, and performance artists.

You can take classes with Pepper Grinds and the Kitties in Rochester at Kinections Studio, 718 University Ave. Tuesdays 5:30-6:30 and Thursdays 7-8!

8pm – Midnight              Friday Dance

  • Country Theme

Midnight – 3pm             

  • Late night swim
  • Pool Pizza Party

Saturday 11/5

10am                               Check-in opens

11am – 5pm                   Games & Seminars offered

  • Some Games being Planned are:
  • Newlywed Game
  • Sexual Trivia
  • Speed Dating
  • Door Decorating Contest
  • Scavenger Hunt
  • Ring Toss
  • Pool Volleyball

4pm – 5pm                     Happy hour in Bar

  • Sport Jersey themed

7:30pm – 9pm                Coleman Green, Comic

Coleman Green who’s known in the Philadelphia comedy scene has quickly increased his comic opportunities nationally and internationally.

A rising star, Coleman Green is no stranger to the entertainment world. Gracing the stages of many venues, clubs and corporate events, Coleman has managed to find the common link between all races, ethnicities, cultures, and incomes. He’s a stand-up comedian, actor, writer and producer of his own animation series.  He has the ability when needed, to bring his comedy into the roles that he often portrays. His ability to make you laugh is certainly a talent that can not be taught. 

9:30pm – midnight         Saturday dance

  • Halloween Dance brought to by SSC

Midnight – 3am               Late-night swim

  • Pool Pizza party

Confirmed Vendors attending

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Pure Romance with Charlotte Dray-

Joe the Shoe Guy

Raj – Exotic Clothing

Meet our Presenters

Sean & Michele

Sean & Michele Andersen have been exploring alternative sexual lifestyles for over 20 years overcoming judgment and fears of a conservative Christian upbringing and the “moral responsibility” of society standards. Married over 30 years, they met in college AS VIRGINS. After 10 years of monogamous, missionary sex, Michele had a spiritual and bi-sexual epiphany and had the courage to share this with Sean. Together, like Lewis and Clark, they stepped into the unknown to explore together.  Along the way they found tools and technologies, pitfalls, life lessons and beautiful sexual connections with others which turned into life long friends. For the past 15 years they have enjoyed working as a “host couple” at a members-only on-premise sex club introducing new people into the philosophy, etiquette, as well as the risks and rewards of open sexual relationships.  They have the gift of creating a safe place for people to ask questions and concerns and have presented workshops at the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, Hedonism, Jamaica, The Private Affair Club and Exotic Fantasies Life Style Convention.

Ms Lady

Allow Me to welcome you to My playground of the mind, body and spirit. I am a Lifestyle & Professional Dominatrix and Educator. I’m also the proud owner of Lady’s Wicked Playground/ LWPvenue, a dungeon, BnB and exclusive alternative social club in Northeast Pa. For more info about My club, events or private interactions, please go to the following: https://linktr.ee/Ms.Lady

Kindly in kink,

Ms. Lady





Brian AKA Pyro Sadist has been in the scene for over two decades. Brian is fairly well known as being a “bit off” and fascinated by fire As a child there were several fires of unexplained origin in his neighborhood that had nothing in common….except that Brian seemed to be always nearby with a bag of marshmallows and several books of matches.

To this day whenever there is a bonfire nearby onlookers say they frequently hear Brian cackling “Fire fire!” Apparently it is now known where that particular sound snippet from Bevis & Butthead came from. The men in the white coats have orders to keep him under surveillance and the gas stations near his house no longer fill up his gas cans.

Master Bjorn

Moderator of WKS – Watertown Kink Society, Leader of the WKS Dom Peer Group and WKS Power Exchange Group, Bjorn has been in the lifestyle for over three decades.  He is a frequent instructor with the Syracuse Rope and Riggers group and is passionate about kink education.  He teaches a wide variety of classes, including Authority-Based Dynamics, fire play, needle play, micro branding, and impact.  Master Bjorn can often be found attending or volunteering at local, regional and national kink events. 

Bob or “Bob the Toy Guy”.

I have been in the lifestyle with my lovely wife since 2012. During that time, I have learned a lot from some very great teachers, partners and friends. Other than my overall passion for toys, the Violet Wand and Hot Wax are my very favorite.

I believe in enhancing the sexual experience with some electricity and some sensual hot wax. Many people that have “experienced” either have had a less than satisfying time. Let me show you the fun and sensual side and you will be hooked.

I will be presenting both the Violet Wand as well as Hot Wax at the Get Away Weekend. 


Massage Therapist

Jodie, LMT, AMTA. I graduated from Baltimore School of Massage in 2006. Then attended a 2-year program at the PA school of Spiritual Healing. Afterward, I continued my studies in Eastern Medicine and hold certificates in Reiki II, Chakra Healing, Thai Massage, Integrated Reflexology, Essential Oils and Hot Stone. I combine a variety of modalities to serve my clients with respect, love and kindness. I see myself as a vessel that nurtures transformation, providing a safe container in which clients will peel back their outer layers allowing their true radiance to emerge.


Massage Therapist

Elliott (Phil) Ness graduated the Arbor College School of Massage in 2011 the same year he discovered the lifestyle and has never looked back. 

Along with his continued education in the field, specifically in sports medicine and chiropractic continuing studies, Phil designed massages specific to those in the swinger community to maximize blood and energy flow for playtime, and in the BDSM community for Doms to recover from muscle and joint exertion and subs to recover energy and strain from scenes to transition from soreness and the infamous sub drop (respectively). 

A true member of the BDSM and swinger community that was a single male and now a married man with his partner Melissa, E.P. Ness loves to make every person’s LS journey a little bit better with his energy; on the event floor and on the massage table.

Website for scheduling appointments: https://calendly.com/elliottexperience


Pretty Kitties Dancer & Choreographer

Leah has been studying and performing a variety of movement and dance since a very age young age. Starting out with tap, jazz, ballet, and modern dance, she also studied martial arts and eventually found her way to musical theater and acting. Graduating from Nazareth College’s Theatre Arts program, she focused on acting, and how movement and physicality pertained to performance. In the 2010’s delved into Belly Dance, at the Goddess Hour Dance studio, and the found her way to the art form of Burlesque. Leah is currently an instructor of fusion belly dance and burlesque, her weekly classes are at Kinections Studio in Rochester, and are attended by all kinds of adventurous, fearless women.

Seminar classes

             Seminars being planned are:

Wine Tasting!!

This year at the Convention we are going to try a new event.  A Wine Tasting/Meet and Greet.  Each couple that wants to participate should bring a bottle of their favorite wine or a bottle of Novelty Wine.  Also, a small plate of something that you think pairs well with your wine.  Such as, cheese, fruit or chocolate.  Bring your favorite glass and we will open all the bottles to share.  Please bring an index card that briefly describes your wine and/or pairing. For example, this is a red semi-sweet wine from Virginia and pairs well with strawberries.
The schedule for this will be announced at a later date!
Here are some ideas for Wine and Cheese.

Ms. No Swimsuit Contests

Presented by: Tom’s Trips

Ladies be sure to sign up for your chance to represent as Ms. Lifestyle Pleasures!

Join us in Jamaica, at the world-famous Hedonism II resort for Tom’s Trips long running Ms. No Swimsuit competition.

Winner of this contest will travel & compete for the Grand Prize in Jamaica
Reach out to Jen Flood or Kimberli Strong if you would like details. Also, for anyone interested in traveling as a cheer squad, with Tom’s Trips, you are the judge!
So come spend a week in paradise with us!

Lap Dance for Couples

Presented by: Leah & The Pretty Kitties

Would you and your significant other like the strip club experience in the comfort of your own home? Feel like spicing it up with a little exotic dance, role-play, and maybe a few laughs? Leave your inhibitions outside and come on in to Lap Dance for Couples! Leah and the lovely ladies of Pretty Kitties Burlesque welcome you to an hour of lusty fun for you and your partner. This class explores both the role of the sitter and dancer, encouraging couples to take turns trying out both if they like. We’ll do a basic warm up and go over some moves and techniques to have a safe, sexy, fun lap dance. We can also explore some different music styles to set a certain mood. Whether you’ve never danced for your partner before or are a pro, there’s something for everyone in this class. Feel free to go at your own pace and add your own style to your personal peep show!

Finding My inner Femdom.  Just for play, or all day…..

Female Lead Relationships

Presented by: Ms Lady

Whether You are looking to take control in the bedroom, maintain control in the relationship on a daily basis, or simply looking for a better understanding of Your partner’s interests or needs, this workshop was created with You in mind. Domination sometimes comes naturally and sometimes it just needs a little encouragement.  Let’s help You find Your inner Dominance….

“Bring your bottom- Impact workshop”

Presented by: Ms Lady

Hands-on workshop with things that make an impact or make them squirm 🙂 Floggers, Paddles, canes and more provided!!! (Bring your own bottoms.) 

“Swinging into Kink”

Presented by: Ms Lady

Chains and whips are not for everyone….. though some get quite excited 😉 Kinky sex is definitely erotic, however there’s so much more behind it then just sex.  Allow your fantasies and experimentation to take your sex life and your relationship to newer heights. If you’ve ever talked about Fifty Shades of Grey, this workshop is for you. 

Introduction to Fire Cupping.

Presented by: Brian

What is fire cupping? It’s actually an ancient oriental healing method that some have perverted for fun (I know, you’re shocked!) The sensations can vary depending on the person and the placement of the cups. I will go over and demonstrate most of the techniques of cupping as well as placement of the cups. A warning to those who want to try the cups; I can ALMOST promise you that you will have marks that will last between several hours to several days (and in some cases, several weeks).

Fire Flogging

Presented by: Brian

What the hell was that?!? A common question when the fire floggers come out to play. What is fire flogging? It is quite simply the most flashy thing allowed in most dungeons….and frequently not allowed. It is taking specially made floggers, dunking them unto a fuel mixture, lighting them on fire and using them like a regular flogger….I can assure you there is NOTHING regular about this!!

Fire Massage

“Dancing the Flame”

Presented by: Brian

Fireplay is definitely edge play, for anything with fire is implicitly dangerous. But I have found that fireplay has a sensual eroticism and art to it that so many can relate to. Who among us hasn’t sat transfixed gazing into a fires light. And to feel and witness that same sensual flow of warm flame across our bodies, lapping over, then passing and leaving only a warm lingering touch. No experience is necessary for this class; some practice materials will be available for use. Both technique, safety, and sensual/art/erotic applications will be gone over in this class. Even if you might not think it’s quite your thing, you might be surprised by the sensual beauty and artistry of the flame.

Tantra for Couples Using the 5 Senses

Presented by: Jodie

Is for individuals who would like to embark on a tantric journey with authentic spiritual focus. If

you are attracted to sexual healing and would like to integrate it into your personal life, this class

teaches about the nurturing ability of touch as well as the glorious potential of tantric sexuality in

general. (Wear comfortable clothes and bring pillows and a blanket for comfort)

  • Round table Lifestyle Discussion, No question is off the table
  • Electric Play
  • Wax Play